Hello, I'm Dr. Kris Freeark.  I want you to have resources and a place to turn for those moments when you feel puzzled as an adoptive parent.

I'm a psychologist, family therapist, educator, and adoptive mom.  In all those roles I've learned how much is accomplished when adoptive families can talk about feelings and questions as they come up.

I created this community because I've also learned how much is gained when parents talk things through together. 

Something another family has learned could make your family's path easier.  Someone else's child may provide the nugget of perspective that helps you understand your own child.  

All these conversations -- in and outside your family -- strengthen understanding, trust and connection. 

Our name, Kinistry, captures the strength and resilience of adoptive families.  Whether Kinistry makes you think of the chemistry of creating belonging, or the artistry in becoming kin, you'll find a lot to learn from in this community.  There is strength in numbers and wisdom gained from experience.

Many adoptive parents don't know that there is now a lot of research from around the globe that shows how often adoptive families thrive.  It also shows what it takes to bring thriving about. Here at Kinistry, among the stories, strategies, resources, and support, we also sometimes talk findings (without getting too technical!) that shed light on day-to-day experiences.

Many people assume that adolescence + adoption = trouble.  That's not only a weighty expectation to carry for all the pre-teen years, but the research tells us it's not as accurate as people believe. 

Keeping the conversation going as your children get older can be a challenge, but it doesn't have to be. Investing in good communication from the early years can make a big difference.  

Welcome to Kinistry!  We're excited to learn from you and your kids too.  The questions you have may lead us all in new directions!